Honesty is important, but when it lacks empathy, it can feel harsh or critical. Some call it “being straightforward”; others perceive it as cold.
Try this: Before speaking, ask yourself, “Is what I’m about to say helpful or hurtful?” Words are more impactful when delivered with kindness.
3. Wearing Clothes That No Longer Represent You
Old or worn clothing may seem harmless, but it can unintentionally signal a lack of care.
Try this: Update your wardrobe with a few pieces that fit well, feel fresh, and truly reflect who you are today—no complete overhaul needed.
4. Taking Over Conversations
Talking at people instead of with them can leave others feeling overlooked.
Try this: Pause more. Ask open-ended questions. Allow silence to invite others to share. Listening is a generous gift.
5. Discounting Younger Generations

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