At night, the mind amplifies worries. Slow breathing sends a signal to the nervous system that you are safe.
Try this simple technique:
- Inhale through your nose for 4 seconds
- Exhale slowly through your mouth for 6–8 seconds
- Repeat for 2–3 minutes
- Longer exhales calm the vagus nerve and lower heart rate. Many people fall back asleep without realizing it.
4. Do Not Reach for Your Phone

Light, notifications, and scrolling activate the brain. Even “just checking” your phone tells your mind it’s daytime.
If you truly cannot sleep after 20–30 minutes, choose something boring and dim:
- Sit quietly
- Read a few pages of a paper book
- Listen to a calm, familiar audio (nothing new or exciting)
- The goal is not entertainment — it’s gentle disengagement.
5. Let Thoughts Pass Without Engaging Them
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